Inspiration does strike you once in a while when you're in the toilet. Somehow it does. Rationale behind it? Well, I guess it's like one of the few rare moments that you do get some time off to yourself to think - who in the right mind would follow you into the toilet while you are bathing or shitting eh?
Anyway, a random thought just struck me - strangely enough, about Relationships. I told you it was random. Yea. The issue of like giving each other "space" as some call it - books emphasis on the importance of it all but well, think I finally understand what it means and the reason behind it. Well, put simply, relationships turn sour and become a childish game of possession most of the time - it feels good to control someone else. It's a hard fact. Well, if we become overly obsessed with that fetish, then is not a relationship all about a game? Who can control who more? It turns childish - and we don't like to lose so ya, there you have it, a break-up. Space is not only for oneself but well, for the whole relationship I guess - you need time off to reflect, true - but so do you need to exercise maturity and trust in allowing the other party to roam ard a little. This way, we keep ourselves in check that we aren't engaging in a senseless game of power and control - it's more of just really enjoying each other's company and knowing that the other party is there to support you in times of need. Ya. Space is important thusfar, as mentioned above.
Haha... as I said, random - no implications ya? =) But ya, if I were ever to write a thesis on things like this, I need a hell not more of meat - but then again, somethings are really best not fully torn apart and understood - somethings, like music, are just meant to be enjoyed. Hahax.
Yup! That's all for today! Finished one project at work today - two more to go... and well, probably another two wks of
PAID OT-ing... hahax...
Night world! Today becomes tomorrow.